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Jewish Dating Site Provides Dating Tips to Improve Your Chances

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Jewish Dating Site Provides Dating Tips to Improve Your Chances











SawYouAtSinai Jewish Dating service provides dating tips


New York, NY (PRWEB) December 15, 2011

Jewish Dating Service SawYouAtSinai.com is well aware that dating is an exciting and stressful time in a person’s life. It requires many simultaneous actions, which sometimes seem to contradict each other. Don’t talk too much, be authentic and say what you really think. Dress your best, don’t be ostentatious.

One of SawYouAtSinai’s 350 matchmakers, Mrs Hilary Kahn, explains how today’s singles can navigate all the well-intentioned advice and make the most of each opportunity when they are on a date.

Dating first and foremost requires that you are looking for the person with whom you can best build a loving home. That person will share your goals and ideals and you will find comfort and camaraderie together. In order to get that far though, certain dating protocol are a prerequisite.

Here are some basic common-sense things that the online Jewish Dating service believe will help make your dating experiences more pleasant, and hopefully lead to meeting the right one soon.

Dating tips:

1.    How do you arrange the date? Whatever you do, don’t text. We have become accustomed to short, terse communication, but this is not the way to set up a date. The guy should call, introduce himself, and together a time and meeting place should be arranged. Considerations such as travel, convenience and safety should be applied, as well as a pleasant place to get to talk.

2.    Guys should plan the date, even in the 21st century. That means that when you meet your date, you already know where you are taking her. This shows confidence and foresight. After a few dates you will likely transition into planning activities together, but the first few dates are up to the guy.

3.    Guys, make sure to discuss whether or not the date includes dinner. No one is at their best when they’re hungry. If a date is after work, a girl might think it includes dinner unless she’s forewarned. Regardless, offer to buy at least a drink. A good date does not need to be costly, but one should show good manners and that they have funds to treat.

4.    First dates should be 1½ to 2 hours. Go into it assuming that you’ll meet again and that this date is to get over the awkwardness of meeting a stranger.

5.    Once a time is agreed upon, be prompt.

6.    Turn off your cell phone. Unless you are a doctor on call, you can be unreachable for a couple of hours.

7.    Eye contact shows you’re interested in what the other person has to say. Stay focused and let your body language reflect your interest.

8.    Personal hygiene is a must. That means, your teeth, hair, body, and clothes should be clean. This shows that you care about yourself, and those who are nearby. No one wants to marry someone who smells badly. Look your best, just as you expect from your date. Be prepared to have a conversation. Know what’s going on in the world, have an interesting story from work to share, etc.

9.    Being considerate towards the other person, as is the key to a strong marriage, and when dating, these are definitely traits to look for.

10.    When in doubt about protocol, ask a mentor, etc. to avoid making a faux pas. Depending on your age, religion, location there will be certain concepts that resonate more. For instance, how should you dress? Casual or suit? Depending on who you’re dating, the answers will vary. But in general, courtesy and common sense go a long way. You only get one chance to make a first impression, so be prepared.

Dating requires networking, advocating, perseverance, and often patience. We need to look our best and focus on what we have to offer to a marriage. Make your best efforts to present yourself as pleasantly as you are able, even when you feel discouraged by the process. Remember that your job is to do your part and let fate take care of the rest.

About SawYouAtSinai

SawYouAtSinai was created in December 2003 to satisfy the need for a more private and personalized approach to online Jewish dating. This site combines the power of technology, the accessibility of the internet, and the personal touch of a matchmaker to serve its 30,000 Jewish singles. SawYouAtSinai has over 350 experienced matchmakers from diverse backgrounds, focusing on its members’ various age ranges, religious levels, locations and personalities. It has the largest Jewish matchmaking network worldwide. 1,300+ members are now married through the service. Mrs Hilary Kahn is one of SawYouAtSinai’s matchmakers, and has been responsible for some of those marriages.

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Jewish Dating Service SawYouAtSinai Provides Helpful Questions to Ask References Before Dating

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Jewish Dating Service SawYouAtSinai Provides Helpful Questions to Ask References Before Dating











SawYouAtSinai Jewish Dating service provides helpful questions to ask when reference checking


New York, NY (PRWEB) December 01, 2011

The Orthodox Jewish Dating scene revolves largely around suggestions from matchmakers (known as ‘shadchanim’), so it is particularly common for Jewish singles to do reference checking to determine if a certain person makes sense for them to date, and hopefully marry.

SawYouAtSinai.com , an online Jewish Dating service, strongly encourages reference checking. Saw You At Sinai is the largest Jewish matchmaking network in the world and suggests thousands of matches a week to its members. With 350 matchmakers searching from quality matches, it saves the singles a lot of work sifting through profiles themselves. The system clearly works given the nearly 1,500 members who are now married through the service.

When a Jewish single signs up to the site and completes a profile, matchmakers call the member to get to personally know them. The member also provides two references (e.g. a Rabbi, Friend, Family member) so a prospective match has the opportunity to look further into the suggestion.

SawYouAtSinai advises its 30,000 Jewish singles, to do just that, and has provided a list of questions to ask references. These questions can help a member decide if the match suggestion has potential or if it is too far off target.

These questions are not just helpful for the Orthodox Jewish Dating world, but useful to anyone going on a blind date, whether through an online dating service or through a friend. In fact, SawYouAtSinai’s sister site JRetroMatch.com which is for the broader Jewish Singles community, also requests references. Speaking with references saves people a lot of time, money and emotions, as they are able to avoid going on dates with people that are not right for them.

Here are some standard questions to ask references, that the Jewish dating service provides to members. Members do not have to ask all of the questions, but should select the questions that they find most helpful for determining if the prospective match is right for them:

1.    How long have you known this person? Are you still in contact with him/her?

2.    Have you ever met his/her family? What is his relationship like with them?

3.    Do some fact checking by asking if the information provided in his/her profile is correct. For example, if the potential match wrote down that this reference was his teacher in a certain school, ask if the reference if he/she attended this school.

4.    Does the person have something in his/her medical history that is important to know?

5.    Does he/she have friends? What type of people does he/she like to spend time with?

6.    If the reference is a friend, what kind of friend is he/she?

7.    If the reference is a teacher or rabbi, what kind of student was he/she?

8.    Is the person more ambitious and conscientious or laid-back and flexible?

9.    Does the person in question have any long-term goals or career plans that you are aware of?

10.    What is this person’s perspective on relocating? Is he/she settled on living in a certain area or has he/she expressed an interest in moving?

11.    If not covered in the profile, what is the extent of the person’s religious observance and beliefs?

12.    Is this person more stubborn and set in his/her ways or is he/she more growth-oriented and open-minded?

13.    What is the first word that comes to your mind when you want to describe him/her? What do you admire most about this person?

14.    Do you know what he/she is looking for in a match? If it turns out you are not at all what he is looking for in a match, you should ask the matchmaker to clarify this with him/her so neither of you waste each other’s time.

15.    Are you aware if the person is involved in any volunteer work?

16.    If there are any physical or other personality traits that turn you off, make sure to inquire whether the person has them or not. It is important to be honest with yourself and risk sounding superficial rather than to date someone that you already know from the beginning that you won’t be attracted to. At the same time, make sure your expectations are realistic – do you really need someone who is 5’’11 when you are 5”0? And yes, it is always inappropriate to ask about someone’s dress size!

17.    After the first date follow up with your matchmaker. If your date revealed a certain piece of information or if you noticed a certain behavior that you would like some clarification on, then discuss if you or the matchmaker needs to look further into a reference before proceeding.

About SawYouAtSinai

SawYouAtSinai was created in December 2003 to satisfy the need for a more private and personalized approach to online Jewish dating. This Rabbinic-endorsed site uniquely combines the power of technology, the accessibility of the internet, and the personal touch of a matchmaker to serve its 30,000 members. SawYouAtSinai has over 350 experienced matchmakers from diverse backgrounds, focusing on its members’ various age ranges, religious levels, locations and personalities. It has the largest Jewish matchmaking network worldwide. With over 1,300 members successfully matched, SawYouAtSinai continues to benefit Traditional, Conservative, Yeshivish and Modern Orthodox Jewish singles from Jewish communities throughout the world.

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Jewish Dating Service JRetroMatch Helps Online Daters Spot Red Flags

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JRetroMatch Jewish Dating service provides tips on identifying Red Flags when dating


New York, NY (PRWEB) November 08, 2011

With nearly a fifth of married couples during the past three years having met online, it has become an extremely common way for people to find love. Online Dating is a great way to meet new people, and has a fantastic success rate at making marriages, which makes it really appealing. JRetroMatch.com is one of those popular and successful services, and serves the Jewish singles community worldwide. JRetroMatch, and partner site SawYouAtSinai.com (which focuses on the Orthodox Jewish community), has the differential advantage over other sites by having 350 dedicated matchmakers setting up its members, leading to over 1,300 members married.

As with all methods of meeting people, whether through friends or when meeting someone at a bar, JRetroMatch says it’s crucial that those dating put themselves in a safe environment. Whether through fraudulent profiles or suspicious characters, daters should be aware of the red flags that can be found throughout the dating process.

JRetroMatch, due to its 350 matchmakers speaking to many of the 30,000 Jewish singles and performing selective background checks, avoid these issues more than other dating sites are able to do. All singles are highly recommended to investigate potential matches independently but having matchmakers reviewing profiles is helpful in preventing scammers and unhealthy relationships from occurring. Matchmakers are also there to give members advice throughout the dating process, and discuss any concerns.

With hundreds of thousands of people dating online its important to remember that every person has a unique personality filled with good qualities as well as some character flaws. After all, no one is perfect. It must however be emphasized that love and infatuation can blind us into believing that our significant other is perfect while overlooking some potentially really harmful behaviors, so people should be aware. JRetroMatch has put together a list of red flags to help online daters spot someone who is bad news. Here are some signs the Jewish dating service suggest singles look out for:

1.    Too fast too soon. He/she wants the relationship to get serious sooner than you are comfortable with.

2.    Is constantly a victim. He/she is quick to blame others for troubles in his/her life.

3.    Is discourteous. He/she treats the waiter or customer service rudely.

4.    Is controlling and possessive. He/she isolates you from your family and friends because he/she feels extremely jealous.

5.    It’s my way or the highway! He/she is very strident and must always be in charge.

6.    Experiences panic attacks. He/she does not handle stress well and isn’t able to calm down.

7.    Dwells too much in the past. He/she talks frequently about his/her past relationships

8.    Is too submissive. He/she is a people-pleaser and is not assertive about his/her needs.

9.    Is secretive. Everyone has their skeletons in the closet but if he/she refuses to communicate, gives vague answers to specific questions, and doesn’t let you call their home number, be suspicious.

10.    Unable to keep promises. He/she is always making promises that he/she can’t commit to and doesn’t offer an explanation.

11.    It is a one-sided relationship. If you do all the giving while he/she doesn’t make any effort to sacrifice for you, he/she is taking advantage of you.

12.    Doesn’t get along with your family and friends. These people have known you longer than anyone else, so their opinion does carry some weight if they don’t like him/her and he/she refuses to be courteous towards them.

13.    Is a little too friendly. He/she is overly flirtatious with the opposite sex and justifies the behavior by saying it is “harmless.”

14.    Needs to be taken care of. He/she, looking for a substitute parent because he/she still can’t take care of him/herself

15.    Needs anger management. If he/she has a terrible temper and yells, doesn’t apologize, and blames you for it – run for the hills!

16.    Has a difficult relationship with his parents. He/she doesn’t treat his parents respectfully and speaks disparagingly of them.

17.    Is always right. He/she can’t take criticism and always justifies his actions

18.    Conditional love. He/she withdraws his love or approval as punishment, which can make you feel insecure.

19.    Has unpredictable mood swings. He/she experiences extreme highs and lows and refuses to get help for it.

20.    Is obsessive with your whereabouts. He/she always constantly asks where you went and whom you last saw.

21.    Doesn’t show appreciation. If he/she is ungrateful or even criticizes you after doing them a favor, this person is demonstrating that he/she isn’t emotionally capable of being on the receiving end without feeling guilty about it.

About JRetroMatch.com

JRetroMatch.com is the exciting spin off of Orthodox Jewish dating site SawYouAtSinai. JRetro was established in March of 2006 to serve the non religious Jewish community. Like SawYouAtSinai, the service blends tradition and technology to revive matchmaking. JRetroMatch combines personalized service from its 350 matchmakers with the unique technology to deliver a quality Jewish dating experience for each of its 30,000 members. With over 1,300 members successfully matched, JRetroMatch continues to benefit Traditional, Conservative and Reform Jewish communities throughout the world.

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The Only Chanukah Gift of its Kind! Unique Jewish Children?s Book Series to Debut in November 2005

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The Only Chanukah Gift of its Kind! Unique Jewish Children’s Book Series to Debut in November 2005










TEANECK, N.J. (PRWEB) October 14, 2005

A new children’s book series that weaves together Jewish history, Jewish values, fascinating characters, and unexpected adventures will make its debut this November, Gali Girls Inc. founder Aliza Stein announced today.

The first book, Miriam’s Journey, follows 10-year-old Miriam Bloom and her family as they flee Russia for a better life in America.

“This is not your ordinary immigration story,” said author Robin K. Levinson of Hamilton, New Jersey, who based the book on her grandmother’s real life experiences. “The story involves a turn of events that threatens Miriam’s future in a way she never could have imagined.”

Although the main characters are Jewish, Levinson expressed confidence that her series will appeal to readers from all religious backgrounds and ethnicities. “Parents will also appreciate these books because the Jewish values I emphasize, such as kindness, respect, charity, and honesty, are universal values.”

Future Gali Girls books will be set in 12th century China, Colonial America, Ethiopia, and other well-known and little-known times and places in Jewish history. Each book will be linked to an 18-inch doll, or doll accessory, representing the main character.

Introduced last year, each Gali Girls Jewish doll comes with her own Hebrew and English name birth certificate, Magen-David bracelet (for doll and owner), and a 10-piece wooden toy Shabbat kit, including candles, challah, and wine cup. Four different dolls come with blonde, brown or red hair.

“Gali Girl dolls have inspired Jewish girls across the country and across the globe to develop a spirited interest in lighting Friday night Shabbat candles,” Stein said. “The Gali Girls Jewish History Series takes the next step toward creating a connection between the contemporary Jewish girl and her rich, wondrous heritage.”

Miriam’s Journey: Discovering a New World

Author: Robin Levinson / Illustrator: Drusilla Kehl

64 pages, 4 color illustrations

Juvenile Historical Fiction / Judaica

Ages 7 and up

$ 12.00    ISBN: 0-9773673-0-4

PUB DATE: November 15, 2005

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